Nope, not out yet. Still working on it.

B

Which report are you referring to?

JB

My quick value-add to the discussion is to drop the graviatas on y’all.

It’s a great little piece of Latin that finds its way occasionally into the English usage like “quid pro quo” and “fuggetaboudit”.

It’s that quality that separates a great actor from a movie star. Some movie stars aren’t even great actors… yet we want to sit in a dark room for 2 hours and just stare at them because they’ve got that magnetic pull, that gravitas.

Does anyone really think Sean Connery can act? But we love him in Bond anyway. Brad Pitt’s a very good actor, and lord knows he’s got that Adonis index going on… but he commands the box office because he’s got gravitas.

By the way, Eben Pagan’s got it too.

It comes from something that most men don’t have and that is very hard to cultivate (though hitting the gym definitely helps!)… and that thing is “absolute self trust”.

Brad H … although Brad Pilon is chiming in more and more these days

abu mosharouf hossain
18/9/2009.

Yes, I agree. My big goal is becoming more clear the more I check off my daily goals. That sense of accomplishment feeds my confidence. I can feel it little by little everyday. And that energy kinda propels me through the next day and that to the next. Ha! It makes me feel giddy actually – like I’m a little kid again or something.

Thanks for all of your work in this area. There aren’t enough qualified guys doing this kind of work that I can relate to … so much appreciated!

I hear ya. I had a rough time with alcohol a few years ago when I was in a bad spot in life…

… did the same thing to me. Now, I only drink for fun. Not stress relief or to forget about problems.

As far as being ultra focused is concerned.

Focus is fine.

AS LONG AS YOU’RE AIMING AT THE GOAL YOU WANT!

For most people, the overall goal ISN’T necessarily to be in shape, it’s the perceived BENEFITS that they’ll get when they are in shape, and a virile social life with chicks falling off of them is generally included in those benefits… LMAO!

So if that’s the real goal, why do things that keep you from that?

Once you understand your overall goal, it’s easy to conform the achievement of your goal to your life.

Yeah, I’m one of those guys that is anti-caffeine/anti-alcohol. Well, at least for the time being. I’ve got alcohol on hold for the next six months – let’s just say booze wasn’t doing me any favors in terms of my ‘gravity.’ Ha!

I enjoyed the first installment of your Weapons series and am looking forward to what’s in the second. As for putting all eggs in one basket, well, as the saying goes, DON’T DO IT! Ha. I’d love to get more stories on how being ultra focused is such a bad idea. The more the better.

I loved working in health clubs, dude. If you’re in the right club, doors open for you in all aspects and the networking is killer.

Yeah, Adonis works on both sexes. I just heard a helluva testimonial last night on Facebook and we’re gonna podcast it…

… you won’t believe your ears.

I have been doing the AI program for 4 weeks now and already I can see a difference in not only how women relate to me but also other men -both hetero and gay – and it is for the better.
The concept of ‘ graviity ‘ as you term it is one that is interesting…and something I have been musing on in my personal experience.
This last weekend I asked a fairly new buddy from the gym for a favour..and his response was ‘ sure thing man, anything for you..’

I have no doubt in my mind that the external changes I am going thru, to balance with my internal perspectives – impacted on his willingness to help me out.
Of course…I would do the same thing for him…the focus here is not on always on the getting..it is on the giving..which ironically makes you more attractive and respected by all.

Looking forward to more from you..
Brad

I was once a gym hermit myself and I have lost more friends, girl friends and even jobs becasue of that lifestyle.
Never again.

Now I work in a gym and even though I work here poeple ask me “You’re always in great shape, but I never see you working out. plus you eat nearly anything. What gives?”

Can’t wait for your report Brad.

No longer a gym hermit in VT,

The Fit Rebel

You got it.

Wait ’til Pilon’s new “Rule of Sevens” report

… and if I don’t know them, I will soon.

So I can tell you all of this stuff from both sides of the coin.