Archives for September 2008

A Soap Opera Audition?

Ridiculous… at least that’s what I thought.

You’re about to here the story of how I was almost bamboozled into doing a “test” for a soap opera… all from the power of the Adonis Effect.

(Have proof, just ask John B… he was THERE)

You see, John and I were at a business seminar about 2 months ago. We finished up with the seminar stuff and happily strolled down to the bar to get a drink (or what ended up being 2 bottles of Dom P).

When we got there, we plopped down at the bar, ordered a few beers, and started talking shop.

Then, out of nowhere, I noticed a well dressed older lady. As she was talking on her cell phone… I overheard someone singing “Happy Birthday” to her.

Nice.

Now, if you know me… all I need is a “little bitty” reason to have a good time in any environment.

So, when our new friend got off the phone, I chatted her up, wished her a happy birthday and got her a drink.

The funny thing is… come to find out that this lady was a talent evaluator/trainer for a lot of TV shows… and she herself had been on one of the soaps for a few years as well.

(If you watch soaps, you’d likely recognize her)

So, somehow, we get talking about the Adonis Effect and how John and Brad did the research… blah, blah…

… and I shit you not, this lady looks at me and goes…

“So, have you ever thought about being in a soap opera?”

“Not really, why do you ask?”

“Well, I can go ahead and tell you that you’ve got the ‘look’ that those guys are looking for… in shape… you obviously practice what you preach.”

I’ll be honest, that was a little weird for me… especially since I’m not quite “perfect” yet (but almost there).

But she was serious.

Anyway, I changed the subject and told her that if she went upstairs and changed into her “party dress” (she was planning on going out later with a few friends)… that when she same back down, I’d have the whole bar give her a standing ovation for her birthday…

(Get a beer or two in me… geez)

I run to the bathroom and as I’m relieving myself… my phone rings.

It’s her, she’s already at the bar.

Damn!

So, I zip up and bolt out of the bathroom and come up with another plan… let’s just have a mini party in the bar.

Now, if you’ve never send someone “Bill Clinton” a room, you might not be able to visualize this… but like a sandstorm… I went from person to person and invited them to come over and wish our new friend a “Happy Birthday” (and network with some pretty high rollers that I had already invited over).

And so it begin… what started out as 10 people went to 20 people, and 20 went to 40…

… and our new “soap” friend was so elated to be having a “birthday party” when she was out of town on business…

… that she sprung for 2 bottles of Dom P.

Sweet.

Now, I’m just walking through the crowd, making sure people are meeting people and having fun when I hear…

“Adonis, Adonis… where’s Adonis?”

Ha, ha… here I am trying to avoid the spotlight and let our friend have her moment in the sun… when… like a electromagnet… she kept pulling me back into the spotlight.

Needless to say, John and I met a lot of great people that night and there are a few that’s we’ll do business with.

However, I guess the moral of the story is this:

It’s your TOTAL PACKAGE that gets you results.

In this scenario, my body and my social status boosting networking ability plus my focus on giving to the situation set us up for a fun night.

So, there you go… just one more true story of how the Adonis Effect can help you succeed socially and financially.

(Oh, and you can visit our “Soap” friend’s website here… as proof 🙂 )

How To Give Her The Gift Of Missing You

One of the main things in most of the books I’ve read revolves around you not getting too “clingy” with the person of your desires.

It’s funny what you figure out… but don’t really put a finger on when you do. This is one of the things I figured out pretty early on…

Look, a person has to wonder why you are calling them all of the time… why you are always trying to be with them.

Do you have anything better to do?

If not, it’s psycho city, my friend.

I have to confess, most people understand that almost all relationships end at some point. So, if this is the case, people also want to know that if it DOES end… that you aren’t going to go crazy on them.

Weird, huh? You haven’t even gotten started and they are already thinking of the end.

Uh… not really, ha, ha.

They only start thinking of the end when you start smothering them… then these thoughts start to come into play.

Remember, self control is an extremely sexy quality… don’t EVER let that go… EVER!

Okay, so we’ve discussed the BAD reasons for being on top of someone… let’s talk about the GOOD reasons on why you shouldn’t smother people.

Numero Uno — When people don’t see you for a while… your mystery and intrigue grow to that person. Curiosity is a GOOD thing. Your value grows. People don’t take you for granted. Remember, when people see you all of the time … you become COMMON.

Numero Two — People’s imaginations are CRAZY. If they like you… or you do some of the things I’ll talk about on this blog to increase attraction… they’ll start to wonder WHY you aren’t calling… if you’re seeing someone else… do you like them… etc… Of course, coupling this fact with “When To Shut Your Mouth” brings a very satisfactory result. You WANT people thinking about you as much as possible. This increases sexual tension.

Numero Three — People respect you and your TIME more. You’ll see less flaky behavior because, quite frankly, these people know that this might be the only time this week… or ever for that matter… that you’ll be able to hang out. Not only that, but the sense of urgency is increased and it becomes much easier to escalate to the physical once you have a person thinking that there is a huge possibility that they might not see you for a week or more.

You know, I didn’t think of this earlier but now I’m glad I did… I am going to write a totally separate post on “Sense Of Urgency” tomorrow… or maybe today.

It’s kind of a variation of the “push-pull”… but a little different.

Plus, I definitely need to get into the “aloof-healthy tension-psycho” diagram too at some point… don’t let me forget.

The basis behind this whole scenario is: make her think about you… if she’s not thinking about YOU… she’s probably thinking about someone else.

Get in her head… create some emotional responses… and start some FIRE.

A man said to a Dervish: “Why do I not see you more often?” The Dervish replied, “Because the words ‘Why have you not been to see me?’ are sweeter to my ear than the words ‘Why have you come again?'”

-Mulla Jami, quoted in Idries Shah’s Caravan of Dreams, 1968

And if you don’t think that’s enough…

After advising constant feints at withdrawal from one’s lover, Ninon de Lenclos wrote:

“Love never dies of starvation, but often of indigestion”

-from The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

Oh, and by the way, I know my Spanish sucks… lol

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